Actions like cooking a meal, setting a table, washing dishes, vacuuming, taking out the garbage, moving the grass, changing the cat’s litter tray, etc are all acts of service. They require thought, planning, time, effort, and energy. If done with a positive spirit, they are indeed expressions of love.
Within every language, there are many dialects. If you have a spouse with Acts of Service as her primary love language, find the specific things she would like to you help her with by asking her. If you are the person with that specific love language, make a list for your spouse with the things that would help you most.
Remember: love is always freely given. Love cannot be demanded. Requests give direction to love, but demands stop the flow of love.[Tweet “Find the specific things your partner might need help with”] [Read more…] about Back by Popular Demand: Love Language Part 4 – Acts of Service