Your friend just told you that she does not like your new shoes or your boss refused to publish your article? So what is the real problem?
The meanings we give to situations are the significant variables that make up the quality of our experiences.
The situation that is presenting, in the example above the fact that your friend did not like the shoes, is never the problem itself. We create problems by the meanings we attach to the situation.
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